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How to say congratulations in Dutch to your daughter.

Not a dictionary line: the phrases Dutch speakers use for your daughter, what each means, and 5 complete messages by a native speaker — each one a tap away from a card in Dutch.

Quick answer

“Gefeliciteerd!” (“Congratulations!”) is the line, and for your daughter “Van harte!” (“Heartfelt (congratulations)!”) adds warmth. Below: 5 full congratulations messages for your daughter, written by a Dutch speaker.

Lieve meid, gefeliciteerd! Jij ging ervoor toen het spannend werd — en dit is je beloning. Zo trots.

Congratulations messages in Dutch for your daughter

Een felicitatie voor je dochter mag trots en tederheid combineren. 'Lieve [naam],' of 'Lieve meid,' — en zeg vooral dat ze het zélf heeft gedaan.

Lieve meid, gefeliciteerd! Jij ging ervoor toen het spannend werd — en dit is je beloning. Zo trots.
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Gefeliciteerd, lieverd! Wij wisten allang wat jij kon; nu weet de rest van de wereld het ook.
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Van harte, dochter van ons. Dit heb je op eigen kracht bereikt, en dat maakt het dubbel mooi.
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Wat een nieuws! Onze meid flikt het gewoon. Geniet van elk moment — dik verdiend.
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Lieve schat, gefeliciteerd met deze prachtige stap. Waar je ook heen gaat, wij juichen mee.
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The Dutch phrases, and when each one fits

Dutch has an informal 'je/jij' and a formal 'u'. Family, friends and almost every colleague get 'je'; keep 'u' for a client you have never met or someone much older who uses it with you first.

  • Gefeliciteerd! — “Congratulations!”. Universal — new job, exam, baby, anything.
  • Van harte! — “Heartfelt (congratulations)!”. Even shorter; Dutch speakers drop the rest.
  • Wat goed van je! — “Well done, that's great of you!”. For an achievement — exam, promotion, a finished project.
  • Dik verdiend! — “Well deserved!”. When they earned it. Colleagues love this one.
  • Gefeliciteerd met jullie kleintje! — “Congratulations on your little one!”. A new baby — the Dutch say 'kleintje' (little one) for a newborn.
  • Trots op je! — “Proud of you!”. Family — a child, a sibling, a partner.

Questions people ask

Can I write to your daughter in English with a Dutch opening?

Yes — open with “Gefeliciteerd!”, write what you want to say in English, and sign off in Dutch: Liefs, or Veel liefs,. For your daughter the effort lands harder than the grammar.

Formal or informal for your daughter?

Dutch has an informal 'je/jij' and a formal 'u'. Family, friends and almost every colleague get 'je'; keep 'u' for a client you have never met or someone much older who uses it with you first.

How do I sign off?

Liefs, · Veel liefs, · Dikke knuffel, · Groetjes, · Hartelijke groet, — warmest first.

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